I am a mother and sometime I am a friend to my children. Kadang2 they will come to me and bercerita tentang apa yang berlaku with their daily routine. Either abt school or their personal life.

There is this incident which I've shared with my son, Arry. I told him, "Bang, I think this girl like you." He said, "I know ma. But I don't want to be in love right now. I can't commit now. I need to concentrate in my study. " Then I told him, "kesian dia, why don't u give her a chance." He just smile. And he need some time.

Few weeks later I asked him again about the girl. He said he's not ready to fall in love. I said, jangan mainkan perasaan anak dara orang. He said he don't. Then I told him to tell her let's just be friend. He said he will. But it's not easy to relay how u feel. There will be some misunderstanding.

I know it's not easy. But at one point I agree with him. Isn't it better to concentrate on ur studies first. Love will come naturally. Lebih-lebih lagi kalau kita dah berjaya. And if u success, lagi banyak yang menanti.

So for all anak2 muda diluar sana, kalau jodoh tak kemana. Jodoh, Ajal dan rezki telah di tentukan oleh yang esa. Insyallah, kalau memang sudah jodoh kita, satu hari nanti pasti bertemu kembali. Banyak2 bersabar.........

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