ASNI TAN

Tuesday, January 27, 2009

Went fishing last Saturday. Chinese New Year this year is a long holiday. Jadi nak hiburkan hati anak, especially Arsyi aku ask Mohd to go fishing with us. Sebab dia ja yang pandai pasang tali and everthing about rod and fishing. This time we go, ramai yang ikut. Ray and Jason aslo tag along. Beside aku dan anak2, the rest tak interested so I never invite them. It was not interesting for them. Nabil yang baru keluar dari camp also went with us. Aku masak nasi lemak, goreng chicken wing. Suka lah budak2 tu. Hakim sorang aja tak leh ikut. Kesian dia, kena jaga abang dia. They change owner again this time. It was control by this China man. So he tak begitu strict. Budak2 tu semua campak tangsi kat pond pun dia tak marah. Apa lagi kesukaan lah semua. They really enjoy themselve sampaikan si Jason ngoyok aku suruh pergi lagi besok. Aku kesian juga, but what to do, kalau byk phulus definitely I will go again the next day. Maklum lah long holiday. But I promise them, we will go again but time is not fix yet.

Ketika baru sampai, Mohd sebok uruskan rod yang baru. Sebab rod lama laki aku patahkan. Haish.......

This is the Chinaman. Was exlaining to us why we cannot extent our time even though we reach there at 11am. We have to stop at 7pm. Since kita semua tak tau cakap cina, we need Ray and Jason to translate to us.

Jason masih tak puas, masih merayu lagi.

Nabil and Jaja. Both of them were so excited sebab they can use just the string to catch the fish.

Arsy is the one who buy this string in a wooden spool

Then Ifa and Jaja also terbabit. Ifa was so excited sebab string dia byk kali ikan dah makan tapi terlepas.

Jason yang paling excited among the rest. Arry was watching him.

Aku duduk memerhati tapi muka sampai merah padam kena sunburn. Jaja mcm mana pun mesti nak posing.

Munah came over time kita dah nak balek. Sebab dia nak turun kat rumah aku, sempat gorengkan mee. Tapi sampai aja cari nasi lemak aku. hahahahahah

Nabil kepala botak, but still smiling. Arry, Nabil and Ray pergi sana sambil jogging from my hse to the pond. So aku, Arsyi, and Jason we go first. Ifa reach there after school and Jaja came by herself.

Arsy nya string manage to get a fish. Mohd cakap ikan kapas. So Nabil was trying his best to take out the hook dari mulut ikan.

Ika came later dgn ibu dia pun sebok nak posing juga.

Munah came over dgn bawakan aku durian struddle. OMG it is so delicious. My favourite u know. Thanks Munah, appreciate that.

Semua kebulur, tgh makan nasi lemak. Dengan muka aku yang hodoh ni pun Sue nak ambil gambar. All the pictures here is from Sue's handphone. Thanks for your contribution.

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4:24 PM

Thursday, January 22, 2009

I was going through my Multiply link when I come across this article. It is so damn right. So sad dgn anak2 melayu yang berangan kebaratan dan lupa harga diri. Terlalu mengikut cara dan tata susila orang barat sampai terlupa akan hukum2 agama. Lupa dosa, lupa halal haram, lupa neraka. Subhanallah.... Apa lah yang nak jadi dgn dunia sekarang ni.

READ ON.......

WHAT'S THE RUSH?

The family denies strongly that they're typical Malays but looking at it, pot calling the kettle black. Mat dgn Minah taik nak tunang. Y I kol dem bdk2 taik? Coz yg lelaki ni mat rep tgh NS & the minah is graduating soon from ITE but blum dpt keje kuntang kanting cari keje utk dpt kan $$$. Maklumlah mat rep tgh NS & until now I duno y he wont get a PERMANENT part-time job and let his minah mcm 'cari $$$ by workin for him'. Its true wat people said that wen love is blind diorang sanggup lakukan apa saja.
I'm not surprised if 1 day the minah has to work to support the mat rep. Bila ,mat rep tu tkd $$$ dtg rumah minah tu abiskan beras je. Kata mak minah tu takpe la...sedekah.
Makcik, kalau jantan tu dtg time tkd $$$ nak abiskan beras dat is wat u kol sedekah? Nak kawinkan dia dgn anak makcik? ARE YOU BEING RETARDED? CAN'T YOU SEE WHAT IS HAPPENING IN FRONT OF YOUR EYES? Nak tunangkan jugak? Gasak korang la. Typical Malays.
Mana diorang dapatkan $$$ nak tunang pun I duno. Pasang cameraman konon. Mana ada orang tunang USUALLY nak pasang cameraman. Tolol betul!!!
Aku bukan sakit hati ke apa but kalau boleh dun let any more victims fall into the young Malay marriages trend dats happening btwn Mats & Minahs la. Byk yang kawin cerai bersepah dgn anak dlm pram and kids wif horrible hairstyles at such a young age.
And to think that the minah is saying that dia nak kawin so that she can gain freedom.

AND THIS IS MY COMMENT TO HER

I agree with u dear. So sad seing bangsa sendiri cam ni. Freedom is not by marrying. It make things worst with all the resposibilites yang mendatang. Good Luck to them. Cheers!!!!!

AND HER ANSWER

Yes they proceeded to do the engagement & the gerl says in her blog that on the engagement day, she will be his
WTF!!???
Does she even know that tunang means just 'official' bf/gf and NOT LAWFULLY wedded. So she does not have the bragging rights to say that she is his's. Sedangkan orang kawin bleh cerai inikan tunang kan.
What is happening to young Malay couples in this era. I as a Malay pun malu sak. Frens been asking y gerls my race getting more & more marrying young. Trend eh?
But I'm wondering...

12:40 PM

Monday, January 19, 2009

Went to Pusara Aman and Pusara Abadi yesterday. I saw dua helang terbang di awan. Cuba juga nak tangkap gambar from my hp, tak dapat. Too far I think. Its beautiful.

Reach home around 11am. Tidur satu jam. Bangun sebab nak masak. Ifa said she's hungry. I was upset about certain things. I was not in a good mood, skali Hakim belo datang setelah dia menghilang sejak keputusan O level di umumkan. Apa lagi, dgn dia skali aku lepaskan. Jangan kita salahkan nasib kalau keadaan menjadi buruk. Setiap perkara yang berlaku, ada hikmah disebaliknya. Kita harus redha jika kita tahu kita telah berusaha sedaya upaya. Kenapa kita harus malu dan bersembunyi. Itu lah yang aku katakan pada si belo. I think he's much better now.

Rumah ni sunyi setelah Nabil masuk camp. Sebab dia yang selalu buat kecoh. I miss him. I think my husband must have miss him too. Dia pun asyik tanya bila Nabil keluar. Nabil keluar banyak plan dah menanti. Haha..... Nak pergi fishing lah, nak pergi JB lah. Tak tahu lah kalau menjadi. Only God Knows.

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1:42 PM

Sunday, January 11, 2009

Basri came home last friday from camp. Malam nya he said he want go to pasar malam. I ask him for what. He said he want to buy kebab. Ifa, Arry and me kirim also. But when he came home he bring me a pot of orkid plant. How thoughtful of him. He knows I luv this plant. I appreciate for his thoughtfullness. Little things like this does make me feel happy. He miss Nabil. I know that. The bond that he have with Nabil is special. They always look up for each other. Nabil pun suka manjakan dia. Now Nabil is in the Army camp. He will only be back on the 23rd. He call me last night while I was playing badminton. He sounds happy and ask me to wait for him to come back. Kadang2, kasih sayang orang luar lebih terserlah dari keluarga sendiri. Terharu rasa hati ni. Masih ada yang sayang. Walaupun banyak yang membenci. Aku bersyukur pada yang Esa.

This is the plant that Arsy bought for me. Beautiful isn't it. I will treasure it dear.

Went to polyclinic yesterday. Munah, Ika, Zai bantot and Ira also went together. Balik from poly, hantar Ifa to CC to get her edusave award. She's a very shy person. Dekat macam ni pun aku mesti kena ikut. Manage to capture one picture of her.

So proud of her too. My children is everything to me. Dari yang kecil sampai yang besar. Cuma kadang2, anak2 tak memahami hati kita. Selalu salah anggap dan salah sangka. Macam mana kita satu ibu menyelami hati mereka, mereka tak dapat buat sebegitu dgn kita.

For my son Arry,

The pain that u feel right now, I've gone through all this. Backstabbing is not something new. I feel it too son. Aku selalu tak rela bila melihat anak2 dalam kesedihan dan kesusahan. Hati aku sangat2 merasa apa yang anak2 aku rasakan. Suka dan duka adalah lumrah hidup. Allah tak akan menduga umat nya sedemikian jika umat nya tak larat untuk mengharungi nya. Ingat lah, setiap sakit yang Allah turunkan, balasan nya madu yang akan kita terima. Hanya masa yang menentukan. Setiap perbuatan ada balasannya. Hanya masa yang menentukan. Banyak2 bawa bersabar. Ingat tuhan kerana tuhan tu sentiasa ingatkan kita. And Jaja, always listen to my advice kalau nak hidup diberkati. Doa ibu selalu di perkenankan Allah. So jgn suku buat sesuatu mengikut kehendak hati. Jangan buat apa yang Ibu tak suka, akan selamat lah di dunia dan di akhirat.

Dunia ni hanya lah lakonan hidup. Dunia ni hanya sementara sahaja. Buat baik balasan nya baik. Buat jahat balasan nya jahat. All of u my children, are very special to me in your own different way. I LUV U ALL. GOD BLESS U.

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11:18 AM

Monday, January 5, 2009

I went to the toilet to bath Saturday morning. Tak sadar ada burung sesat inside the toilet. I turn on the tap dia terkejut and started to fly. Anjat gegerl.....

So after finish bathing, I wake Arsyi up to catch the bird. Sekali Arsyi pun tak boleh tangkap. In the end, aku campakkan baju terus dia tak leh terbang. Ha ha.... caught it.

It was a beautiful bird. So I put inside Aduka cage. Bodoh punya aku, cage Aduka lobang besar, burung boleh keluar. Terus hinggap kat pokok cempaka aku. Manage to take a shot of this beautiful creature before it started to fly away. It makes my day......

IT'S A BEAUTIFUL YELLOW BIRD, I THINK IT'S OF A PARROT SPECIES

IT'S ABOUT TO FLY

MY DARLING ADUKA RELAXING

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